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Offline Iridescence

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« Reply #25 on: April 27, 2007, 12:25:39 AM »
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Using your kids for the sole purpose of destroying your ex spouse is the real abuse here.
I couldn't agree more.
Hermaphrodite Jesus, he hides in the carport.  The neighbour car headlights shine on him, he's scared.
He stoops and he cowers, they call a policeman, they came and they siezed him, and laughed at his hair.
And Jesus hates policemen, for their hearts can know no love.
That's why every time he sees the man, he says "Hey let's beat it, it's the fuzz"

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« Reply #26 on: April 27, 2007, 01:31:26 AM »
Ireland Baldwin


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« Reply #27 on: April 27, 2007, 02:10:30 AM »
Baldwin's saying the Basinger is a real bitch about the case, too. As you do. Probably true, even. He, of course, wouldn't happen to be a wanker either...
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« Reply #28 on: April 27, 2007, 04:36:25 PM »
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Éirinn, Nuada? :-P
No.
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« Reply #29 on: April 29, 2007, 09:52:00 AM »
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erin

Or should you be correcting the article? Don't forget your sources? ;) :-P
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« Reply #30 on: April 29, 2007, 02:22:59 PM »
Fuck did ypu just seriously quote wikipedia as your source? Here. I'll do you one better, this guy I was right once. :)
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« Reply #31 on: April 29, 2007, 03:00:21 PM »
Brilliant rhetoric. Fantastic response to a question and an ironic statement...
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I'll do you one better, this guy I was right once. :)
Still going for unintelligible sentences, anyway.
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« Reply #32 on: April 29, 2007, 03:04:24 PM »
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« Reply #33 on: April 29, 2007, 03:21:38 PM »
I have an excuse, drug and alcohol abuse!
What I meant to say was this guy told me I was right.  Yeah, that's it :)
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« Reply #34 on: April 29, 2007, 03:23:03 PM »
@Olli: How about you dig up the differences between the original and edited post, and then make a comment? You probably don't want to, you might look like an idiot.


Anyway, no, Nuada, I wasn't quoting wikipedia as a serious source. I was making an ironic comment on wikipedia, to change that article and quote your sources so that the whole world could know your fantastic knowledge. Yes, I know you can't be fucked, because you're obviously way too cool to do it. More, as if anyone can be buggered going past wikipedia in an argument on here.

(edited to add the "@Olli", because Nuada posted... just for you, Ol.)
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« Reply #35 on: April 29, 2007, 03:25:43 PM »
Oh I think they can....
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« Reply #36 on: April 29, 2007, 03:27:57 PM »
*insert ironic statement about people caring too much over arguments on teh intarnets*

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« Reply #37 on: April 29, 2007, 03:31:34 PM »
*Insert ironic statement about Yer muder!*
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« Reply #38 on: April 29, 2007, 03:34:29 PM »
*witty expression to go away, starting with an 'f'!*
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« Reply #39 on: April 29, 2007, 03:43:33 PM »
Frak you Back!
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« Reply #40 on: April 29, 2007, 04:05:58 PM »
Don't say that, Auryn gets all grumpy for some reason. You don't want to have to listen to him when he's grumpy. :(
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« Reply #41 on: April 30, 2007, 01:09:28 PM »
frak ... mmmmmmmmmmm apollo :inlove:
i'm just attracted to shiny things. and soft
fluffy things. god help me if someone ever invents a soft fluffy shiny thing.


i always knew i had to let go of dax's virginity some day *sigh*

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« Reply #42 on: May 04, 2007, 06:30:12 PM »
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Pfft.  My father said worse, and I turned out ok.
Oh you did NOT just commit that idiot blunder :| Yuck Iri, YUCK! Go to your room.

Flipping out at your daughter like that isn't grounds for being denied the right to parent her, but how you deal with your bad behaviour afterwards should have some bearing on the issue.

Kim may have done something y'all find a little lame, but the truth of the matter is that her lame act doesn't really show her to be a bad mumsy.

EDIT: Nasty prolonged custody struggles are not good for anyone in the family... oh well, at least IRI is doing okay!
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« Reply #43 on: May 04, 2007, 07:18:05 PM »
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Pfft.  My father said worse, and I turned out ok.
Oh you did NOT just commit that idiot blunder :| Yuck Iri, YUCK! Go to your room.

Flipping out at your daughter like that isn't grounds for being denied the right to parent her, but how you deal with your bad behaviour afterwards should have some bearing on the issue.

Kim may have done something y'all find a little lame, but the truth of the matter is that her lame act doesn't really show her to be a bad mumsy.

EDIT: Nasty prolonged custody struggles are not good for anyone in the family... oh well, at least IRI is doing okay!
I think her point was that parents are human, and yelling at your kids isn't necessarily first degree child abuse.  Just because he could have handled it better doesn't mean he's a terrible parent.

Well, maybe he is, but not because of that.
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« Reply #44 on: May 04, 2007, 07:19:32 PM »
My apologies, I thought Iri's father actually WAS abusive.
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« Reply #45 on: May 04, 2007, 07:20:23 PM »
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My apologies, I thought Iri's father actually WAS abusive.
I thought he was too, I could be mistaken.  Doesn't change the general point.

Edit:  I hope that didn't sound callous: I don't mean that verbal abuse doesn't exist.  I just meant that losing your temper isn't always a guaranteed sign of a bad parent.
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« Reply #46 on: May 05, 2007, 03:23:59 AM »
He most certainly is not abusive, and was never abusive, and never will be, but you say things when you're angry that you don't mean, and if you blow them out of all proportion and take them out of all context, you find yourself in the situation that Mr Baldwin is in.  I did push my parents, like any kid does, I pushed them as far as I possibly could and even though they might have said things that, taken out of context, could be misinterpreted, they are human, and I have little emotional scarring from my upbringing.  I have more emotional scarring from my first adult relationship than from my parents.  I adore my parents, they are everything to me, and we have gone way beyond the nasty teenage years and survived with a very positive and supportive friendship.

My point was exactly as Kat says above.  Parents are just humans.  Shouting at your kids doesn't make you a bad parent.  What Baldwin said is most likely tame compared to what his kid says to him.  I love how there is all this fuss over spanking and shouting being child abuse but no one ever pulls the kids up and says "waitaminit, let's look at YOUR bad behaviour for just a second!"  In most case, with most good people, kids do provoke the worst anger and stress and fright.  And I usually find that people with no kids are the ones judging other people's parenting.  What's with that?
Hermaphrodite Jesus, he hides in the carport.  The neighbour car headlights shine on him, he's scared.
He stoops and he cowers, they call a policeman, they came and they siezed him, and laughed at his hair.
And Jesus hates policemen, for their hearts can know no love.
That's why every time he sees the man, he says "Hey let's beat it, it's the fuzz"